{"id":94,"date":"2026-04-27T10:57:13","date_gmt":"2026-04-27T10:57:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/?p=94"},"modified":"2026-04-30T14:20:59","modified_gmt":"2026-04-30T14:20:59","slug":"%da%a9%db%95%d8%b3%d8%a7%db%8c%db%95%d8%aa%db%8c%db%8c%db%95-%da%98%db%95%d9%87%d8%b1%d8%a7%d9%88%db%8c%db%8c%db%95%d9%83%d8%a7%d9%86-%da%a9%db%8e%d9%86-%d9%88-%da%86%db%86%d9%86-%d8%a8%db%8c%d8%a7","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/%da%a9%db%95%d8%b3%d8%a7%db%8c%db%95%d8%aa%db%8c%db%8c%db%95-%da%98%db%95%d9%87%d8%b1%d8%a7%d9%88%db%8c%db%8c%db%95%d9%83%d8%a7%d9%86-%da%a9%db%8e%d9%86-%d9%88-%da%86%db%86%d9%86-%d8%a8%db%8c%d8%a7\/","title":{"rendered":"Zehirli ki\u015filikler kimlerdir ve onlar\u0131 nas\u0131l tan\u0131r\u0131z?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yukar\u0131daki ba\u015fl\u0131k dikkatinizi \u00e7ekti, de\u011fil mi?! Zehirli ki\u015filiklerin kimler oldu\u011funu ve nerede bulunduklar\u0131n\u0131 do\u011frudan sormak istiyorsunuz.<br>Ne g\u0131da zehirlenmesinden bahsediyorum, ne de annelerin \u00f6fkeyle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na takt\u0131\u011f\u0131 zehirden. Psikolojide zehirli ki\u015filikler olarak adland\u0131r\u0131lan zihinsel bir olgudan bahsediyorum. Bunlar zaten vard\u0131, ancak isim yeni ve psikoloji ve sosyoloji alan\u0131ndaki uzmanlar bu olguyu bu isim alt\u0131nda s\u0131n\u0131fland\u0131rmaya ba\u015flad\u0131lar.<br>Asl\u0131nda, zehirli bir ki\u015filik, herhangi bir nedenle zehirlenmi\u015f bir ki\u015fiden \u00e7ok daha tehlikelidir; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc zehirlenen ki\u015fi sadece kendine zarar verir ve \u00f6l\u00fcme yol a\u00e7abilir, ancak zehirli bir ki\u015filik bamba\u015fka bir durumdur. \u00c7evresindekilerin enerjisini emer ve onlar\u0131 t\u00fcberk\u00fclozla \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zehirli karakterler nerede?!<br>Zehirli ki\u015filiklerin i\u00e7eri\u011fini tart\u0131\u015fmadan \u00f6nce, kim olduklar\u0131n\u0131 ve nerede olduklar\u0131n\u0131 sormak daha do\u011fru olur. Onlarla g\u00fcnl\u00fck temas halinde miyiz? Asl\u0131nda cevap \u015fu ki, narsist, bencil, kibirli ve daha bir\u00e7ok farkl\u0131 ki\u015filik tipiyle \u00e7evriliyiz; bunlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda en tehlikelisi olan zehirli ki\u015filikler de var, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc normal bir ki\u015fili\u011fin i\u00e7inde saklan\u0131yorlar ve bu y\u00fczden kolayca fark edilmiyorlar.<br>Asl\u0131nda, di\u011fer t\u00fcrler \u00e7evreye kendilerinden daha fazla zarar verebilir, ancak bu t\u00fcr\u00fcn olumlu yan\u0131, kendilerini h\u0131zla tan\u0131mlayabilmeleri ve tan\u0131nabilir olmalar\u0131d\u0131r, bu nedenle bir \u015fekilde \u00f6nlenebilirler.<br>\u00d6te yandan, zehirli bir ki\u015filik, her t\u00fcrl\u00fc k\u00f6t\u00fc ki\u015fili\u011fin bir araya gelmesidir veya ki\u015filikleri, psikologlar\u0131n veya alan uzmanlar\u0131n\u0131n yakla\u015f\u0131k (18) k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015f olarak sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir dizi k\u00f6t\u00fc ki\u015filik davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n bir koleksiyonudur. Onlarla ayn\u0131 ortamda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, koyun postuna b\u00fcr\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f kurt gibi, onlar\u0131 kolayca hissedemezsiniz; bu nedenle, birka\u00e7 y\u0131l sonra ve di\u011fer ki\u015fi \u00fczerindeki sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan, uyand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda durumun bozulmu\u015f olabilece\u011fini fark edersiniz. Daha da k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc, daha \u00f6nce de belirtti\u011fim gibi, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na kendilerinden daha fazla zarar verdikleri i\u00e7in, bilin\u00e7sizce ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 da olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 hale getirebilirler.<br>Hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphe yok ki o ki\u015fi anneniz veya baban\u0131z, e\u015finiz, en yak\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z, sevgili kom\u015funuz veya sad\u0131k ve ilgili meslekta\u015f\u0131n\u0131z olabilir, ancak siz bunu bilmiyordunuz.<br>Bunun sebebi onlar\u0131n gizli ki\u015filikleridir; evde veya ofiste sizinle birlikteyken sizi yorarlar, enerjinizi t\u00fcketirler, kan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 emerler, v\u00fccudunuzu ve beyninizi yorgunluktan ve haklar\u0131ndan mahrum b\u0131rak\u0131rlar. Asl\u0131nda hasta olduklar\u0131n\u0131 ve zehirli bir ki\u015fili\u011fe sahip olduklar\u0131n\u0131 bilmezsiniz.<br>O halde \u015fimdi h\u0131zl\u0131ca d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmenin ve evinizde, baban\u0131z\u0131n evinde veya kay\u0131npederinizin evinde zehirli bir ki\u015finin ya\u015fay\u0131p ya\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kontrol etmenin zaman\u0131 geldi. Ofisinizde, mahallenizde, en yak\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda ve i\u015f arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda zehirli bir ki\u015filik yok mu?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bakal\u0131m kimler bunlar ve onlar\u0131 nas\u0131l tan\u0131yaca\u011f\u0131z?!<br>\u00c7e\u015fitli kaynaklar, \u00e7evremizde farkl\u0131 say\u0131larda zehirli ki\u015filiklerin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan bahsetmekte ve bunlar\u0131 \u015fu \u015fekilde s\u0131n\u0131fland\u0131rmaktad\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Kendini kurban olarak g\u00f6steriyor ve hayattaki t\u00fcm hatalardan ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 su\u00e7luyor, ancak bu davran\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imine olan inanc\u0131 olduk\u00e7a g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00c7evresindekilere s\u00fcrekli endi\u015fe veriyor ve onlar\u0131 asla mutlu etmiyor.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>O bencil biridir ve her zaman kendi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131nkinden \u00f6nce tutar.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bilim, para ve yetenek bak\u0131m\u0131ndan kendisinden daha a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da olan insanlara kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ok \u015fiddet uyguluyor, ancak yetkili ve tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f ki\u015filere kar\u015f\u0131 aptal ve i\u015fe yaramaz davran\u0131yor.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kendinizi onun elinde bir kukla gibi hissetti\u011finizde bu \u00e7ok diplomatik bir davran\u0131\u015f.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>O her zaman \u00fczg\u00fcn ve ihanete u\u011fram\u0131\u015f gibi davran\u0131r.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>O her zaman ele\u015ftireldir ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131na tavsiyelerde bulunur.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Herkesten ve her \u015feyden \u015f\u00fcphe duyuyor.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hakl\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve sizi de kendi g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerine inand\u0131r\u0131r, ger\u00e7e\u011fi gizler ve gerekirse yalan s\u00f6yler.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>S\u00fcrekli \u015fikayet ediyor, \u00e7ok konu\u015fuyor ve dinlemiyor.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>O ac\u0131mas\u0131zd\u0131r ve s\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131na zarar verir.<br>\u015eimdi kendinize sorun, \u00e7evrenizde b\u00f6yle bir insan var m\u0131? E\u011fer varsa, zehirli ki\u015filikle nas\u0131l ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131k\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 hakk\u0131nda daha fazla bilgi edinin, aksi takdirde hayat ge\u00e7ip gidecek ve siz fark\u0131nda olmadan daha zehirli bir insan olup ba\u015fka bir ortam\u0131 da mahvedeceksiniz.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0626\u06d5\u0645 \u0646\u0627\u0648\u0646\u06cc\u0634\u0627\u0646\u06d5\u06cc \u0633\u06d5\u0631\u06d5\u0648\u06d5 \u0633\u06d5\u0631\u0646\u062c\u06cc \u0631\u0627\u0643\u06ce\u0634\u0627\u06cc\u062a\u060c \u0648\u0627\u0646\u06cc\u06d5\u061f! \u0631\u0627\u0633\u062a\u06d5\u0648\u062e\u06c6 \u062f\u06d5\u062a\u06d5\u0648\u06ce\u062a \u0628\u067e\u0631\u0633\u06cc\u062a \u0643\u06d5\u0633\u0627\u06cc\u06d5\u062a\u06cc\u06cc\u06d5 \u0698\u06d5\u0647\u0631\u0627\u0648\u06cc\u06cc\u06d5\u0643\u0627\u0646 \u0643\u06ce\u0646 \u0648 \u0644\u06d5 \u0643\u0648\u06ce \u0628\u0648\u0648\u0646\u06cc\u0627\u0646 \u0647\u06d5\u06cc\u06d5\u061f\u0644\u06ce\u0631\u06d5\u062f\u0627 \u0628\u0627\u0633 \u0644\u06d5\u0648 \u0643\u06d5\u0633\u0627\u06cc\u06d5\u062a\u06cc\u06cc\u0627\u0646\u06d5 \u0646\u0627\u0643\u06d5\u0645\u060c \u0643\u06d5 \u0628\u06d5\u0647\u06c6\u06cc \u062e\u06c6\u0631\u0627\u0643\u06d5\u0648\u06d5 \u0698\u06d5\u0647\u0631\u0627\u0648\u06cc \u062f\u06d5\u0628\u0646\u060c \u0647\u06d5\u0631\u0648\u06d5\u0647\u0627 \u0628\u0627\u0633\u06cc \u0626\u06d5\u0648 \u0698\u06d5\u0647\u0631\u06d5\u0634 \u0646\u0627\u0643\u06d5\u0645\u060c \u0643\u06d5 \u0644\u06d5 \u067e\u06d5\u0631\u0648\u06d5\u0631\u062f\u06d5\u06cc \u0643\u0644\u0627\u0633\u06cc\u0643\u062f\u0627 \u062f\u0627\u06cc\u06a9\u0627\u0646 \u0644\u06d5 \u062a\u0648\u0648\u0695\u06d5\u0628\u0648\u0648\u0646 \u0648 \u0647\u06d5\u06b5\u0686\u0648\u0648\u0646\u06cc\u0627\u0646\u062f\u0627 \u0628\u06d5 \u0645\u0646\u062f\u0627\u06b5\u06d5\u0643\u0627\u0646\u06cc\u0627\u0646 \u062f\u06d5\u06af\u0648\u062a \u0626\u06d5\u06cc (\u0698\u06d5\u0647\u0631\u06cc \u0645\u0627\u0631)\u060c \u0628\u06d5\u06b5\u0643\u0648 \u0628\u0627\u0633\u06cc \u062f\u06cc\u0627\u0631\u062f\u06d5\u06cc\u06d5\u0643\u06cc \u062f\u06d5\u0631\u0648\u0648\u0646\u06cc \u062f\u06d5\u0643\u06d5\u0645\u060c \u0643\u06d5 \u0644\u06d5 \u062f\u06d5\u0631\u0648\u0648\u0646\u0646\u0627\u0633\u06cc\u062f\u0627 \u067e\u06ce\u06cc\u062f\u06d5\u06af\u0648\u062a\u0631\u06ce\u200c [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":97,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-94","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-quality-education"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=94"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":123,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94\/revisions\/123"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=94"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=94"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=94"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}