{"id":416,"date":"2026-06-02T12:20:30","date_gmt":"2026-06-02T12:20:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/?p=416"},"modified":"2026-06-02T12:21:33","modified_gmt":"2026-06-02T12:21:33","slug":"%d9%84%db%95-%d9%86%db%8e%d9%88%d8%a7%d9%86-%d9%be%db%8c%d8%a7%d9%88%d8%b3%d8%a7%d9%84%d8%a7%d8%b1%db%8c-%d9%88-%da%98%d9%86%d8%b3%d8%a7%d9%84%d8%a7%d8%b1%db%8c-%da%a9%db%8e%d8%b4%db%95%da%a9%db%95","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/%d9%84%db%95-%d9%86%db%8e%d9%88%d8%a7%d9%86-%d9%be%db%8c%d8%a7%d9%88%d8%b3%d8%a7%d9%84%d8%a7%d8%b1%db%8c-%d9%88-%da%98%d9%86%d8%b3%d8%a7%d9%84%d8%a7%d8%b1%db%8c-%da%a9%db%8e%d8%b4%db%95%da%a9%db%95\/","title":{"rendered":"Ataerkillik ve anaerkillik aras\u0131nda: Sorun nerede?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ataerkilllik ve anaerkillik aras\u0131ndaki karma\u015f\u0131k denklemde as\u0131l sorun, iktidar koltu\u011funu s\u0131k\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131ya tutan akt\u00f6r\u00fcn cinsiyetinde de\u011fil; insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \"egemen ve tebaa\" temelinde s\u0131n\u0131fland\u0131ran o \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck\u00e7\u00fc ve d\u00fcalist zihniyetin kendisindedir. Ataerkil bir toplumda g\u00f6zlerimizi a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, ailelerimiz tahakk\u00fcm kar\u015f\u0131t\u0131 olsa bile, en nihayetinde yap\u0131sal kurumlar arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla bireysel \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve kad\u0131n\u0131n f\u0131rsatlar\u0131n\u0131 yok eden, ayn\u0131 zamanda erke\u011fi \"kahraman\" rol\u00fcn\u00fc oynamaya zorlayarak omuzlar\u0131na a\u011f\u0131r bir psikolojik ve ekonomik y\u00fck bindiren bu sistemle temas ederiz. Ancak denklemi sadece anaerkilli\u011fe do\u011fru tersine \u00e7evirirsek sorun \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmez; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc burada psikanalitik felsefede \"i\u00e7selle\u015ftirilmi\u015f ataerkillik - internalized patriarchy\" olarak bilinen ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131n, sistemin terbiyesi nedeniyle bask\u0131c\u0131 normlar\u0131 bizzat benimseyip birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 kulland\u0131klar\u0131 derin bir fenomenle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. Bu durum, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kendi hemcinslerine kar\u015f\u0131 ger\u00e7ek birer destek\u00e7i olmalar\u0131n\u0131 engellemi\u015ftir. Buradan hareketle, annelerin e\u011fitimdeki rol\u00fcn\u00fcn ele\u015ftirilmesi, kurban\u0131n su\u00e7lanmas\u0131 olarak de\u011fil; bir g\u00fc\u00e7lendirme ve de\u011fi\u015fim yetisi kazand\u0131rma s\u00fcreci olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclmelidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kad\u0131n sadece sessiz bir al\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil, erkek ve k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n yeti\u015ftirilme tarz\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirerek bu dogmatik ve dura\u011fan zihniyetin temelini sarsabilecek aktif bir \u00f6znedir. Y\u0131llarca sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 ele\u015ftirmekle vakit kaybettik, ancak art\u0131k sorunun cinsiyet de\u011fil, bir insan\u0131 di\u011ferinden \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u00f6rmeye sevk eden o zalimce d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131s\u0131 oldu\u011funu anlaman\u0131n zaman\u0131 geldi. E\u011fer bu durum insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ruhundan k\u00f6kten s\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcp at\u0131lmazsa, hangi sistem gelirse gelsin sonu\u00e7ta adaletsizli\u011fin, s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn ve insani adaletten uzakla\u015fman\u0131n yeni bir modelini yeniden \u00fcretecektir. Burada diyebiliriz ki kad\u0131nlar, anaerkil konumda birbirlerine tam haklar\u0131n\u0131 verememi\u015fler ve bazen birbirlerinin rollerini baltalam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Bu psikolojik y\u00f6n\u00fcn yans\u0131mas\u0131 erkeklerde de g\u00f6r\u00fclmekte, \u00f6zellikle evlilikte kad\u0131nlara hak ettikleri sayg\u0131y\u0131 tam olarak g\u00f6stermemektedirler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nihayetinde kad\u0131nlara sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterilmesi ve haklar\u0131n\u0131n verilmesi yine kad\u0131nlar\u0131n elinden gelecektir; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar annedir ve erkek ile k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n e\u011fitimi ve yeti\u015ftirilmesi kendi sorumluluklar\u0131ndad\u0131r. Biz kad\u0131nlar, erkekleri daha iyiye do\u011fru de\u011fi\u015ftirebiliriz; sorun erkek ya da kad\u0131n de\u011fil, sorun bir insan\u0131n kendisini di\u011fer bir insandan daha \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u00f6rmesine yol a\u00e7an yanl\u0131\u015f bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. E\u011fer bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi ruhumuzda de\u011fi\u015ftirmezsek, ataerkillik ya da anaerkillik ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda gelecek her sistem eninde sonunda ayn\u0131 sonucu do\u011furacakt\u0131r.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0644\u06d5 \u0646\u06ce\u0648\u0627\u0646 \u0647\u0627\u0648\u06a9\u06ce\u0634\u06d5\u06cc \u0626\u0627\u06b5\u06c6\u0632\u06cc \ufb58\ufbfe\ufe8e\u0648\ufeb3\ufe8e\ufefb\u0631\u06cc \u0648 \u0698\u0646\u0633\u0627\u0644\u0627\u0631\u06cc\u062f\u0627\u060c \u06a9\u06ce\u0634\u06d5 \u0695\u0627\u0633\u062a\u06d5\u0642\u06cc\u0646\u06d5\u06a9\u06d5 \u0644\u06d5 \u0695\u06d5\u06af\u06d5\u0632\u06cc \u0626\u06d5\u0648 \u0628\u06a9\u06d5\u0631\u06d5\u062f\u0627 \u0646\u06cc\u06cc\u06d5 \u06a9\u06d5 \u06a9\u0648\u0631\u0633\u06cc\u06cc \u062f\u06d5\u0633\u06d5\u06b5\u0627\u062a \u062a\u0648\u0646\u062f \u062f\u06d5\u06a9\u0627\u062a\u060c \u0628\u06d5\u06b5\u06a9\u0648 \u0644\u06d5 \u062e\u0648\u062f\u06cc \u0626\u06d5\u0648 \u0639\u06d5\u0642\u06b5\u06cc\u06cc\u06d5\u062a\u06d5 \u0628\u0627\u06b5\u0627\u062f\u06d5\u0633\u062a\u06cc\u062e\u0648\u0627\u0632 \u0648 \u062f\u0648\u0627\u0646\u06cc\u06cc\u06d5\u062f\u0627\u06cc\u06d5 \u06a9\u06d5 \u0645\u0631\u06c6\u06a4\u0627\u06cc\u06d5\u062a\u06cc \u0644\u06d5\u0633\u06d5\u0631 \u0628\u0646\u06d5\u0645\u0627\u06cc &#8221; \u0633\u06d5\u0631\u062f\u06d5\u0633\u062a \u0648 \u0698\u06ce\u0631\u062f\u06d5\u0633\u062a &#8221; \u067e\u06c6\u0644\u06ce\u0646 \u062f\u06d5\u06a9\u0627\u062a. \u06a9\u0627\u062a\u06ce\u06a9 \u0644\u06d5 \u06a9\u06c6\u0645\u06d5\u06b5\u06af\u06d5\u06cc\u06d5\u06a9\u06cc \u067e\u06cc\u0627\u0648\u0633\u0627\u0644\u0627\u0631\u062f\u0627 \u0686\u0627\u0648 \u0647\u06d5\u06b5\u062f\u06d5\u0647\u06ce\u0646\u06cc\u0646\u060c \u062a\u06d5\u0646\u0627\u0646\u06d5\u062a \u0626\u06d5\u06af\u06d5\u0631 \u062e\u06ce\u0632\u0627\u0646\u06d5\u06a9\u0627\u0646\u06cc\u0634\u0645\u0627\u0646 \u062f\u0698\u06d5 \u0628\u0627\u06b5\u0627\u062f\u06d5\u0633\u06cc \u0628\u0646\u060c \u062f\u0648\u0627\u062c\u0627\u0631 \u0644\u06d5 \u0695\u06ce\u06af\u06d5\u06cc \u062f\u0627\u0645\u06d5\u0632\u0631\u0627\u0648\u06d5 \u067e\u06ce\u06a9\u0647\u0627\u062a\u06d5\u06cc\u06cc\u06d5\u06a9\u0627\u0646\u06d5\u0648\u06d5 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":417,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-416","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-peace-building"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/416","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/19"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=416"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/416\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":418,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/416\/revisions\/418"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/417"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=416"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=416"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=416"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}