{"id":416,"date":"2026-06-02T12:20:30","date_gmt":"2026-06-02T12:20:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/?p=416"},"modified":"2026-06-02T12:21:33","modified_gmt":"2026-06-02T12:21:33","slug":"%d9%84%db%95-%d9%86%db%8e%d9%88%d8%a7%d9%86-%d9%be%db%8c%d8%a7%d9%88%d8%b3%d8%a7%d9%84%d8%a7%d8%b1%db%8c-%d9%88-%da%98%d9%86%d8%b3%d8%a7%d9%84%d8%a7%d8%b1%db%8c-%da%a9%db%8e%d8%b4%db%95%da%a9%db%95","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/en\/%d9%84%db%95-%d9%86%db%8e%d9%88%d8%a7%d9%86-%d9%be%db%8c%d8%a7%d9%88%d8%b3%d8%a7%d9%84%d8%a7%d8%b1%db%8c-%d9%88-%da%98%d9%86%d8%b3%d8%a7%d9%84%d8%a7%d8%b1%db%8c-%da%a9%db%8e%d8%b4%db%95%da%a9%db%95\/","title":{"rendered":"Between patriarchy and matriarchy: Where lies the problem?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Within the complex equation of patriarchy and matriarchy, the real problem does not lie in the gender of the agent gripping the seat of power, but rather in the very supremacist and dualistic mentality that classifies humanity on the basis of \"master and subordinate.\" When we open our eyes to a patriarchal society, even if our own families are anti-hegemonic, we ultimately come into contact\u2014through structural institutions\u2014with a system that destroys individual freedom and women's opportunities, while simultaneously placing a heavy psychological and economic burden on men's shoulders by forcing them to play the role of the \"hero.\" However, if we merely reverse the equation to a matriarchy, the problem will not be solved; because here we face a profound phenomenon known in psychoanalytic philosophy as \"internalized patriarchy,\" in which women themselves, due to systemic upbringing, adopt oppressive standards and wield them against one another. This has often prevented them from becoming genuine supporters of their own gender. From this perspective, criticizing the role of mothers in upbringing should not be viewed as blaming the victim, but rather as a process of empowerment and fostering the capacity for change. Women are not merely passive recipients, but active agents who, by changing the way boys and girls are raised, can undermine this dogmatic and stagnant mentality. We have spent many years criticizing the consequences, but it is time to realize that the issue is not gender, but that tyrannical mindset which makes one human being consider themselves superior to another. If this is not uprooted from the human psyche, whatever system emerges will ultimately reproduce a new model of injustice, oppression, and alienation from human equity. Here, we can say that women, within a matriarchal position, have failed to grant full rights to one another and have sometimes undermined each other's roles. The reflection of this psychological aspect also manifests in men, who do not fully grant women the right to respect, particularly in marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ultimately, respecting and granting rights to women also comes from the hands of women themselves, because they are mothers and the responsibility of raising and nurturing both boys and girls rests upon them. We, as women, are capable of changing men for the better; the problem is not men or women, the problem is a flawed mindset that makes one human being consider themselves better than another. If we do not change this thinking within our own psyche, any system that comes into existence, whether under the name of patriarchy or matriarchy, will ultimately yield the exact same result.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0644\u06d5 \u0646\u06ce\u0648\u0627\u0646 \u0647\u0627\u0648\u06a9\u06ce\u0634\u06d5\u06cc \u0626\u0627\u06b5\u06c6\u0632\u06cc \ufb58\ufbfe\ufe8e\u0648\ufeb3\ufe8e\ufefb\u0631\u06cc \u0648 \u0698\u0646\u0633\u0627\u0644\u0627\u0631\u06cc\u062f\u0627\u060c \u06a9\u06ce\u0634\u06d5 \u0695\u0627\u0633\u062a\u06d5\u0642\u06cc\u0646\u06d5\u06a9\u06d5 \u0644\u06d5 \u0695\u06d5\u06af\u06d5\u0632\u06cc \u0626\u06d5\u0648 \u0628\u06a9\u06d5\u0631\u06d5\u062f\u0627 \u0646\u06cc\u06cc\u06d5 \u06a9\u06d5 \u06a9\u0648\u0631\u0633\u06cc\u06cc \u062f\u06d5\u0633\u06d5\u06b5\u0627\u062a \u062a\u0648\u0646\u062f \u062f\u06d5\u06a9\u0627\u062a\u060c \u0628\u06d5\u06b5\u06a9\u0648 \u0644\u06d5 \u062e\u0648\u062f\u06cc \u0626\u06d5\u0648 \u0639\u06d5\u0642\u06b5\u06cc\u06cc\u06d5\u062a\u06d5 \u0628\u0627\u06b5\u0627\u062f\u06d5\u0633\u062a\u06cc\u062e\u0648\u0627\u0632 \u0648 \u062f\u0648\u0627\u0646\u06cc\u06cc\u06d5\u062f\u0627\u06cc\u06d5 \u06a9\u06d5 \u0645\u0631\u06c6\u06a4\u0627\u06cc\u06d5\u062a\u06cc \u0644\u06d5\u0633\u06d5\u0631 \u0628\u0646\u06d5\u0645\u0627\u06cc &#8221; \u0633\u06d5\u0631\u062f\u06d5\u0633\u062a \u0648 \u0698\u06ce\u0631\u062f\u06d5\u0633\u062a &#8221; \u067e\u06c6\u0644\u06ce\u0646 \u062f\u06d5\u06a9\u0627\u062a. \u06a9\u0627\u062a\u06ce\u06a9 \u0644\u06d5 \u06a9\u06c6\u0645\u06d5\u06b5\u06af\u06d5\u06cc\u06d5\u06a9\u06cc \u067e\u06cc\u0627\u0648\u0633\u0627\u0644\u0627\u0631\u062f\u0627 \u0686\u0627\u0648 \u0647\u06d5\u06b5\u062f\u06d5\u0647\u06ce\u0646\u06cc\u0646\u060c \u062a\u06d5\u0646\u0627\u0646\u06d5\u062a \u0626\u06d5\u06af\u06d5\u0631 \u062e\u06ce\u0632\u0627\u0646\u06d5\u06a9\u0627\u0646\u06cc\u0634\u0645\u0627\u0646 \u062f\u0698\u06d5 \u0628\u0627\u06b5\u0627\u062f\u06d5\u0633\u06cc \u0628\u0646\u060c \u062f\u0648\u0627\u062c\u0627\u0631 \u0644\u06d5 \u0695\u06ce\u06af\u06d5\u06cc \u062f\u0627\u0645\u06d5\u0632\u0631\u0627\u0648\u06d5 \u067e\u06ce\u06a9\u0647\u0627\u062a\u06d5\u06cc\u06cc\u06d5\u06a9\u0627\u0646\u06d5\u0648\u06d5 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":417,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-416","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-peace-building"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/416","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/19"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=416"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/416\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":418,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/416\/revisions\/418"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/417"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=416"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=416"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diyalogname.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=416"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}